We need to take the pressure of "finding the one," and learn to glorify God in all our relationships.
Once upon a time, I freaked out about dating.
I repressed my desire for dating and relationships with the opposite sex and decided that courtship was the “holier” course of action for my life. I bought into the theory that dating was wrong and the only way to find God’s one and only match for my life would be to wait for some sort of sign from God.
So, I waited. And waited. And waited.